It is like saying, I am not thinking..., but instead, you are using, I am not sure..., where you have to disagree with someone without offending them. It is hard to know what you are willing to sacrifice for someone you have never met. There is no reward at the end of your life for sticking with one person. Do not be afraid to leave things behind that are not working out in your wild, precious, single life. There is no glory in feeling like you are sucking things in and waiting things out for years. It happens when one of you cannot stop gambling, and the love is not enough. It happens when one partner does not want to live in Phoenix and love is not enough. It happens when one wants children but the other does not, and loving each other more cannot make up for that. If not wanting kids means that I am narrowing down my chances at marriage, I can live with it. I think that, in many ways, it makes a lot of sense that I am not currently in the situation of getting married. For the time being, that is where I am, and these are some reasons why I am not convinced marriage is on the cards for me. I will get married someday - marriage is just one more step on my journey that I will reach at the end, when it is the right time. Once I realized I was not sure marriage was something I could ever really do, I started thinking about things that enriched my life right now, without my partner. I am sure both of you are making adjustments to make the relationship better for my guy, but I think both of you have to make adjustments to make the relationship better for you, too. Part of it is him dating you means stretching for you the same way you are stretching for him. If you choose to stick around and continue working through it, you may continue to ask things that may be better for you. A lot of people get really far off in all of their years, into their own hearts, and not all of us are going to make it back that far. Louise) did not do much just because I knew that I was not going to be living out there like years and years. I know from experience that I can, through sheer hard work and discipline, claw my way back up to the baseline. I have had depressive episodes before, and while I have the cushion of experience now to deal with them--I know that they are transitory; I know how to tolerate them and claw myself back out--they are difficult to recover from each time. Some of it, I know, is the symptoms of depression, which is now the second-pandemic, the social follow-up to COVID-19. I love that person, the woman I am now, and am thankful for how she views the world--something I cannot always say about myself. There are thousands, perhaps millions, of people out there right now in the world who can testify firsthand to the truth that love is not enough. People have had the experience--some for the first time in their lives--of being left alone, and this is usually a luxury not available to the rich as well. The realization that there is no permanence in living at university housing means students are required to constantly develop. One participant went so far as to describe his or her decision to leave to live in a university residence as being built upon the stereotyped expectations of what it means to be a student. For many participants, living away from home is a part of becoming a student and adult, making a choice to live away from home related to the wish to have a typical student experience. In a third theme, participants highlighted uncertainty about knowing where home is now while living in college housing, many saying that they did not feel they had one or had more than one home now. While there is no way of knowing what participants chose not to share, I was also able to cross-reference findings across interviews and lines of questioning, and found little variation across individuals across time. Second, although snowball sampling is helpful in getting a balanced sample, it also means some participants knew one another. Given this knowledge, and a certain minimal level of trust, the three-party trigglers could have made the trig across the various party sources. While the type of trust that was of greatest importance to my participants was confidence in the media, mistrust of other sources--whether federal authorities, experts, or politicians themselves--can generate a similar absence of view formation. Reaching any kind of view on any given new issue can be difficult when you mistrust all sources of information. Abigail is frequently prevented from reaching any opinion because she does not know what sources of information to trust, and this is especially true when assessing new issues or political candidates. These partisan differences cannot account for people like Danielle, who just does not have confidence in Danielles opinions because of her distrust of the media. For questions about accessing or troubleshooting, please consult Oxford References FAQs, and if you cannot find an answer there, contact us. For instance, Finlands longitudinal study of the experiences of young women in college provides powerful insights on students movements across time. As these examples show, clauses sometimes begin with this, sometimes they do not. This means, too, that if you are unsure, you may want to refer to air pressure printed on the Technical Data Book.